According to Honore de Balzac a love is the best religion and a person who is in love will give everything to the one he or she is in love with and that person will never even have to ask about it. it is thelove that makes us the most generous and kind people in the world and that makes us give everything we have to people we are in love with.
Jean-Jacques Rousseau

Jean-Jacques Rousseau is a great philosopher and a wise man. He was the one who have created the greatest form or government and that is the form common for most countries in this world. It was the democracy the brain child of Rousseau. Though, he was smart not only at policy but he alsowas smart at life and there is no life without love.
So, as for rthe love Jean-Jacques Roussea said the the best way to gain a love of people is to give them your love. It is the altruistic love and it is the only love possible for people. Though, never recognse it as the best way to find the love of a person you are in love with. It is more about the global love to all the people than about a love to a person.
In case you will be kind to people they will be kind to you and this is the main rule of the democracy by Rousseau. Indeed he is a wise man and a thought he expressed is the wise thought. And people should consider this expression and try to follow it. There is no love in response for crulety and hate but there is love in response for love.
Sure, there are people who will try to use your love for their personal purposes, but there will be less of them and more of those who will be just as kinds and sweet towards you as you are sweet and kind towards them.