According to Honore de Balzac a love is the best religion and a person who is in love will give everything to the one he or she is in love with and that person will never even have to ask about it. it is thelove that makes us the most generous and kind people in the world and that makes us give everything we have to people we are in love with.
William Somerset Maugham

William Somerset Maugham is a famous writer whose novels are full of thought about this life. He expressed the philosophy of this life, of life common for them in his novels. And those thought are really valuable and it is important for people to know at least most of those. He expressed his mind about the polarity for love, the real polarity for love.
Most people think that it is hate the polarity for love but they are wrong in this though the real polarity for love is ignorance, and that is the phenomenon Somerset Maugham was talking about so he said: "It is bitter to look at woman you used to love with all your heart, a woman you couldn't imagine your life without and you thought you will die because of minute spend without her and realize that it is okay if you will never see her again. The ignorance is the greatest tragedy of love".
These are words by Somerset Maugham and it is the very truth of love. It is not the hate that makes people stop loving each other but it is ignorance that makes you feel nothing about a person you used to love. That it means that all those feelings you had were the fake feelings and you lied to yourself and to a person you thought you were in love with.
It is common for people to confuse some other feelings with the real love; unfortunately they realize the mistake only after it is over. The ignorance is a real polarity for love and it is the greatest tragedy of love at the same time.